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Become a True Love Magnet(TM)

Are you a true love magnet? Do you know how to attract your Mr. or Ms. Right, how to build a great relationship and make it last?

To find out, take the True Love Magnet(TM) Quiz below. Or you may take the quiz live at .

Discover what beliefs you need to change and what skills you need to acquire in order to become a "true love magnet" and have all the love you want.

Instructions for completing the quiz:

Step 1. Place a checkmark by every statement that applies to you.
Step 2. Total the number of statements you checked in each section.
Step 3. Total all sections to get your score.
Step 4. Read the interpretation of your score at the end of the quiz.

The 10 areas you will be working in are:

1. Past Relationship Patterns
2. Letting Go of the Past
3. Your Needs
4. Strong Boundaries
5. Right Mate & Relationship
6. Social Arena
7. New Relationship Patterns
8. Life Vision
9. Faith
10. New Dating Patterns

NOTICE: Copyright Rinatta Paries, 1998-01. Any unauthorized use prohibited.

Love Magnet(TM) Quiz

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1. Past Relationship Patterns
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True Statement

_ I have a clearly-written description of what didn't work in each of my past relationships
_ I have a clearly-written description of what didn't work in my parents' relationship
_ I have compared the two descriptions above and have discovered my relationship pattern
_ I have identified the types of partners I tend to attract
_ I have identified my dating behavior patterns
_ I have identified my relationship behavior patterns
_ I understand how I have developed my relationship patterns
_ I have identified ten ways my relationship patterns benefit me
_ I have identified ten ways my relationship patterns cost me
_ I have discovered what I believe about relationships

__ Total number of statements checked

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2. Letting Go of the Past
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True Statement

_ I am complete with and have forgiven my mother
_ My mother did the best she could
_ I am complete with and have forgiven my father
_ My father did the best he could
_ I am complete with and have forgiven each of my past relationship partners
_ Each of my past partners did the best he/she could
_ I harbor no hope of reconnecting with past relationship partners
_ I am complete with and have forgiven the opposite gender
_ I have forgiven and no longer compete with the same gender
_ I am complete with and have forgiven myself for my past relationship mistakes

__ Total number of statements checked

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3. Your Needs
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True Statement

_ I recognize that everyone has needs and it is okay to have them
_ I recognize that I have needs, and know the importance of getting those needs met
_ I understand that my needs can't be met by someone I've just met
_ I know what my needs are
_ I recognize and know what makes me needy
_ I practice great self-care when I feel needy
_ I consistently take great care of myself
_ I have a system that meets my three main needs automatically
_ I have a spiritual solution for some of my needs
_ I no longer need to be in a relationship in order to meet my needs

__ Total number of statements checked

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4. Strong Boundaries
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True Statement

_ I can say "no" and do
_ It's important for me to have boundaries to protect me
_ I know clearly what my boundaries are
_ I do not ignore people who cross my boundaries
_ I have an empowering boundary-setting process
_ I make sure I am heard when setting my boundaries
_ I am being supportive of other people when I set boundaries
_ I am the most important person in my life
_ I gently but effectively educate people about my boundaries
_ I respect and honor others' boundaries

__ Total number of statements checked

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5. Right Mate & Relationship
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True Statement

_ I have defined the qualities I value above all else in another
_ I have defined what is important to me living day-to-day with a partner
_ I have identified five relationship needs that absolutely must be met by a partner
_ I have defined what I need in order to thrive in a relationship
_ I have defined the things that I cannot live without in a relationship
_ I have defined the worst thing(s) a partner could do to me
_ I have defined what I absolutely will not tolerate from a partner
_ I am not willing to negotiate on the qualities most important to me
_ I have dropped all demands on another that I don't demand of myself
_ I am willing to be in the process of growth with a partner

__ Total number of statements checked

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6. Social Arena
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True Statement

_ I engage only in activities that bring me great pleasure and joy
_ I no longer engage in activities for the sole hope of meeting a partner
_ I no longer put on false pretenses; I am myself at all times
_ I never use sexuality, power, or money as a way to attract partners
_ I don't expect everyone to be attracted to me
_ I no longer require attention from everyone
_ I don't compare myself to others
_ I readily participate in activities rather than sitting at home
_ I surround myself with loving, supportive friends
_ I am building a healthy, vibrant, loving community

__ Total number of statements checked

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7. New Relationship Patterns
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True Statement

_ I can quickly recognize the "wrong" types of partners I attracted in the past
_ I no longer attract or am attracted to the "wrong" types of partners
_ I recognize available people
_ I recognize people on a spiritual path
_ I recognize people in the process of growth
_ I recognize kind people
_ I see people for who they are rather than for who I want them to be
_ I am attracted to partners who will be good for me
_ I surround myself with people who are good for me
_ I have numerous role models for good relationships around me

__ Total number of statements checked

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8. Life Vision
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True Statement

_ I have a vision of how I want my life to turn out
_ I have ten steps to lead me toward my vision
_ I know what my life purpose is
_ I know what I contribute to others
_ I know the legacy I want to leave behind
_ I know what work makes my soul sing and I am doing it or working on it
_ I have free, unstructured time
_ I spend time engaged in deeply satisfying activities
_ I know where and how I want to live
_ I am living my life to the fullest

__ Total number of statements checked

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9. Faith
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True Statement

_ I have a relationship with my Higher Power
_ I have my own spiritual practice
_ I take time for silence and connectedness
_ I am in touch with my intuition
_ I can distinguish intuition from other thoughts and feelings
_ I trust my intuition above all else
_ I am detached from the timing of meeting a mate
_ I know I will attract the right partner into my life at the right time
_ I trust that as long as I am taking steps, a good relationship is inevitable
_ I am truly happy and living a full life

__ Total number of statements checked

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10. New Dating Patterns
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True Statement

_ I am a woman and I allow men to pursue me or I am a man and am comfortable taking first
steps in a relationship
_ I stay away from verbal foreplay early in a relationship
_ I do not engage sexually until I am in a committed relationship
_ I limit my together time in the beginning of a relationship; I get to know the person
slowly
_ I spend much more time courting in-person than I do by phone or email
_ I am myself at all times in the dating process
_ I am clear about how I want and don't want to be treated, and I communicate those desires
to my partner
_ I see my partner for who he/she is and not for his/her potential
_ I do not test my partner
_ I have fun in the dating/relationship process

__ Total number of statements checked

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_____ Your quiz score
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Add the total points for all sections to determine your score. The closer your score is to 101 points, the more likely you are to attract a great partner and build a long-term, satisfying relationship.

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Interpreting Your Quiz Score
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Think of your unmarked quiz statements as action points. Work on each one until you can mark a resolute "yes" by each.


75 to 101 Points
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You have the ability to attract your right partner easily. In fact, you may already be in a relationship and are looking to improve your relationship skills. On the other hand, you may feel you are almost there, but just need a little push in the right direction. Relationship coaching can help you get to your great relationship faster.


50 to 74 Points
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You feel good about the opposite sex and dating�sometimes. Other times you feel as if something is still holding you back from having the relationship of your dreams. You believe in love at first sight and keep looking for chemistry to point out your right mate. You will be able to attract your right mate more easily after you do some relationship skills building.


0 to 49 Points
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You feel frustrated with dating -- or lack thereof -- and sometimes think there will never be a relationship for you. You very much believe in love at first sight and keep looking for chemistry to point out your right mate.

You will be able to attract your right mate more easily after you delve deeply into relationship skill building.

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Relationship Coaching can help enhance your ability to attract your ideal mate and get more love in your relationship.
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If you want to enhance your relationship skills and shift your relationship patterns, work with Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries. For more info go to www.WhatItTakes.com or email .

Your Relationship Coach,
Rinatta Paries
www.WhatItTakes.com

(c) Rinatta Paries, 1998-2001. For more than a decade, master certified coach Rinatta Paries has been inspiring and coaching men and women to attract and sustain healthy, long-term relationships. Having coined the term "relationship coach," Paries shares her expertise each week in her free ezine, the Relationship Coach Newsletter, and through her quizzes, classes
and coaching techniques. Learn more by visiting www.WhatItTakes.com .


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