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Fixing a Broken Partner-Picker

Do you have a broken partner-picker? Do you keep picking the
wrong partners thinking they are the right ones, only to realize
you once again picked the same kind of partner as in the past?

If it's broken, don't panic: your partner-picker can be fixed.
It just needs a little work.

The first step to fixing a broken partner-picker is to realize
that all kinds of people exist out there in this big, wide world
of ours. Most singles with a broken partner-picker believe the
only kinds of people who are out there are the kinds they have
been meeting already. So a woman who keeps meeting unavailable
men believes all men are unavailable. And a man who keeps
meeting women who are after his money believes all women are
gold diggers.

In a way this makes sense: we believe the evidence in front of
us. However, does the woman who keeps meeting unavailable men
keep meeting them because that IS the only kind of man out
there, or because she BELIEVES that is the only kind of man out
there? In my experience, you will attract all kinds of people,
but only notice the kinds you believe are out there.

The second step in fixing a broken partner-picker is to realize
that all kinds of relationships exist out there. Most singles
tend to believe that the only kind of relationship possible is
the kind they fear they will end up in. So singles envision a
controlling, manipulative partner who asks them to compromise
their very being. Or they envision an uncaring, cold partner who
would rather be away from them doing something else. Or they
envision some other relationship horror they would rather not
live through.

In reality, many different relationship dynamics are possible
between two people. Simply because you feel controlled or feel
distance in one relationship does not mean the same
thing will happen to you in every relationship with every
possible partner.

The third step in fixing a broken partner-picker is to realize
that you deserve love, attention, affection, time with your
partner, and all the other good things you yearn for in a
relationship. You don't have to do anything to earn the right to
these things except to be yourself. This is your inherent right
as a human being.

To fine-tune and really fix your partner picker you need to do
deeper work. For an opportunity and guidance on how to do this
work, take a look at the eClass below.

(c) Rinatta Paries. Do you know how to attract your ideal mate? Do you know how to build a fulfilling relationship, or how to reinvent yours to meet your needs? Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries can teach you the skills and techniques to attract and sustain long-term, healthy partnerships. Visit where you'll find quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine. Become a "true love magnet(tm)!"

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