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How Not to Blow it in a New Relationship

Today's article is an excerpt from a new class I am writing
titled, "How Not to Blow it in a New Relationship." This is the
same new class I referred to last week, and is nearly complete.
Watch this newsletter for updates.

You can now pre-enroll in this class and save 20% on the cost
of the class. This offer is only good until the class is
officially posted and announced. Read more below.


How Not to Blow it in a Brand New Relationship
Lesson 1: Is He or She Your Soul Mate?
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New Relationship Mistake 1: Assume the person is your soul mate
immediately upon meeting or shortly thereafter. Look for signs
that faith has brought you together and be amazed by the
correlations in your lives.

What happens when people think they have found their soul mate?
What may happen to you and your relationship when you assume or
look for signs you have found your soul mate?

Heartbreak is almost inevitable when you make this mistake. I
hear it over and over again; "We were so compatible...we fell in
love at first sight...we committed to each other right way...we
had so much in common...it is as if we have known each other all
of our lives...Yet the relationship fell apart, my soul mate's
behavior radically changed.
What happened?"

The "soul mate theory" struck again.

Because of how the "soul mate theory" works, which I will
explain a bit later, you may think you have an instant bond with
a person you just started dating. If you believe faith has
brought you together, you will throw your better judgment out
the window and disregard any red flags and incompatibilities
with this person.

If the person you are dating also feels this instant bond, the
situation can become very intense. The relationship gets
accelerated to the point where you may act like a couple who has
been together for years, yet who in reality hardly knows each
other.

Intensity of this sort feels wonderful while it's happening.
Unfortunately in most cases, about 99% of the time, one of you
will lose the "soul mate feeling" and leave the relationship. In
most cases, this happens sooner rather than later.

If the person you have just started dating does not see your
relationship as a soul mate relationship and you do, you are in
for an altogether different kind of experience. You are likely
to compromise yourself in many ways in the hopes your partner
will realize he/she is with his/her soul mate and allow
closeness. Your partner may end up using you without falling in
love with you.

Imagine how wonderful it is to have someone love and adore you.
Even if you are not in love with the person, you may want to
keep him or her around to keep getting this adoration and love.
That's just what might happen to you in this kind of relationship.

Here is the bottom line. Regardless of whether you have met
your soul mate or not, if you get wrapped up in the idea that
you might have met your soul mate, you are very likely in for a
heartbreak and the end of the relationship.

How do you avoid heartbreak? Understanding about what's going
on inside of you and the beliefs and theories you are operating
upon is your first step. Your second step is learning healthier
and more productive new relationship behaviors.

Want to know how to take these steps and more? Read below:

Be sure not to blow it in your next new relationship. Make sure
you have a chance at building something with the next great
person you meet. Get tools that will help you avoid making the
same mistakes most people make. Don't end up alone over and
over, wondering why your relationship ended. The new class, "How
Not to Blow it in a New Relationship," will show you the five
worst mistakes people make in brand new relationships and
everything you need to avoid making these mistakes. You will
also be given the healthy, relationship-promoting actions to
build up and strengthen your new relationship.

I am writing this new class now and it will be completed by the
end of next week. If you pre-enroll in the class now before it
gets published and goes live you can save 20% off the regular
class price. For more information and to pre-enroll, go to
www.whatittakes.com/classes/newrel.html.

Your Relationship Coach
Rinatta Paries


(c) Rinatta Paries. Do you know how to attract your ideal mate? Do you know how to build a fulfilling relationship, or how to reinvent yours to meet your needs? Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries can teach you the skills and techniques to attract and sustain long-term, healthy partnerships. Visit www.WhatItTakes.com where you'll find quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine. Become a "true love magnet(tm)!"


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