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Six Sure-Fire Steps to Become a Love Magnet

Do you want to attract true love or improve your relationship
so that it turns into true love? Then you may want to become a
love magnet.

You deserve to be loved! I will show you how to attract true
love by looking and growing within yourself.

Although you're seeking love from another person, you will be
more likely to get the love and attention you deserve by first
growing within.

Here are the six steps you need to take to help you grow in
just the right way. The steps will groom you to attract and
engender love.

Want to know exactly how to put each one of these steps into
action? Each of these steps plus six more are described in detail
and laid out for you in the "How To Stop Being Single" class. To
register or find out more, go to

1. Figure out your relationship patterns.
If you are not attracting the right partners or not getting
enough love in your relationship, it's probably not the first
time in your life. If that's the case, then it's likely you have
relationship patterns that are preventing you from attracting
the right partner or preventing you from behaving in a way that
causes love. Get to know your relationship pattern and your love
life will improve.

2. Let go of your past.
Most people collect unpleasantness without realizing it. Every
time something unpleasant happens to you, it goes into a huge
sack of other unpleasantness weighing heavily on your back. You
can't move forward in life -- and especially in relationships --
with this baggage. You can't move forward emotionally any better
than if you had a real sack weighing 100 pounds on your back.
Even if you don't feel the weight most of the time, you will
feel it in relationships. It feels like excessive anger,
excessive need to control others, fear, and anxiety. Want to
drop this weight? Learn to let go of the unpleasantness in your
life and in your past.

3. Delve into your needs.
Everyone has needs -- that's a part of human nature. In fact,
our needs create relationships. The giver and the receiver both
feel better and more connected when each other's needs are
voiced and met. Yet most of us are uncomfortable asking others
to meet our needs. At the same time, we enter relationships to
get our needs met. See the paradox? Figure out your needs, and
then figure out which ones need to be met by your partner and
which ones need to be met by other people. Get them met!

4. Draw your boundaries.
Boundaries are there to protect you and to help you honor your
needs and wants. You know you have boundaries when you can
choose to say yes or no to something, someone, or a situation.
You know you have boundaries when you can stop a situation that
is hurting you. You know you have boundaries when you know your
needs and ask others to respect them. Having boundaries makes
you discerning, gives you self-respect, and inspires others to
both respect you and treat you well. This is valuable skill to

5. Know what you want.
Know what you want in a partner and in a relationship. Be
careful that what you want is not a fantasy, unrealistic
standards of perfection, or a set of low expectations. Look at
the relationships you value most and model your love
relationship after those. Keep out people who are not a match,
invite in those who are. Stop doing behaviors that sabotage what
you want in your relationship and instead take action to create
what you want.

6. Get connected.
Build a community. Get people into your life to meet your
needs, to support you, to nourish you. Many people want to
simply find "the one" or hope they have found "the one," and
then proceed to isolate themselves. What a stress on a
relationship! Can you put all of your needs, wants, desires, and
interests on one person? Do you think all of your needs will
somehow be met by your Prince or Princess Charming? We all need
community. We have too many needs for one person to meet them
all. Get connected, and stay connected.

For detailed explanation on how to accomplish each of these
steps plus 6 more, register for the "How to Stop Being Single"
class. For more information and to register, go to

Your Relationship Coach,
Rinatta Paries

(c) Rinatta Paries. Do you know how to attract your ideal mate? Do you know how to build a fulfilling relationship, or how to reinvent yours to meet your needs? Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries can teach you the skills and techniques to attract and sustain long-term, healthy partnerships. Visit where you'll find quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine. Become a "true love magnet(tm)!"

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