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The Cure for Being Chronically Single

I have been writing so much about marriage lately that many
singles are starting to complain that nothing is being written
for them. Those who are chronically single are complaining the
loudest.

There are surprisingly many chronically single people -- bright,
nice, loving people who for whatever reason are unlucky in love.

I have already written many articles to address the needs of
those chronically single, trying to give them tips to stop being
single. I have even written a series of articles on this topic.
But I am still getting as many requests for help with this
situation as ever.

I think the problem is that many chronically single people
think there is THE answer, the magic piece of information they
can be given to make love turn around for them.

I hate to say this, but sorry, it doesn't work this way.
Relationship issues are better viewed in the same context as
addiction or disease. If you were addicted to, say, smoking or
food, you would know there was not one answer. You would expect
to take a series of often-difficult steps. You would have to
overcome your own personality in order to succeed and get
better. If you had a disease, diabetes perhaps or heart disease,
you would know you would have to continuously take certain
steps, again overcoming your personality at times in order to
live well.

Being single and especially being chronically single is like
that. Think of it as chronic singles disease--I know, this
sounds depressing. But looking at being single this way can also
give you hope. If being single is a "disease" then there must be
a "cure." And there is.

But the "cure" comes at a cost. The cost is hard work. You must
overcome certain personality characteristics you will find hard
to overcome and take actions that seem inconvenient and out of
your comfort zone.

The end result of the "cure" is love.

Are you willing to deal with the "cure" to get love? If you say
yes, here is one action I will challenge you to take right now.
Yes, it will be hard and out of your comfort zone, but we have
already established this is what the "cure" will involve.

Start by widening your social circle. Here's why:

}}You need support for being single and in the early stages of a
relationship.

}} You need something fun to do while being single and in the
early stages of a relationship so that your new partner is
not your only source of fun.

}} You want to cast a wide net and get to know the many friends
of your many friends, to increase your chance of meeting your
right person.

}} You are a social animal with social needs that need to be
met. You need to meet these before you get into a
relationship and while you are in one.

}} You can learn about some of your relationship issues in
friendships, before these issues ruin your relationship.


It is difficult to meet new people, especially if you feel, as
some singles do, that you don't know anyone. It is difficult to
attend events or clubs or groups alone and see the clicks, which
seem impossible to break through. But at some point you have to
do it. It's really not any harder than this. Just go out there
and get involved. And your perpetual singleness will begin to
get "cured."

Want more "cure"?

I have written a definitive class on how to stop being single.
In it are the actions you need to take as well as the internal
work you need to do to finally stop being single, to become
"cured." If love is what you want, you will find the "cure" at
www.whatittakes.com/classes/single.html. Go there for info
on the class and to enroll.

Your Relationship Coach,
Rinatta Paries


(c) Rinatta Paries. Do you know how to attract your ideal mate? Do you know how to build a fulfilling relationship, or how to reinvent yours to meet your needs? Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries can teach you the skills and techniques to attract and sustain long-term, healthy partnerships. Visit www.WhatItTakes.com where you'll find quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine. Become a "true love magnet(tm)!"


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