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Good Questions about Your Relationships

I like deep questions, profound questions. I like the kind of
questions that when asked and answered turn my view of the
subject completely on its head. I like questions that give me
goose bumps, or maybe leave me bewildered and confused for a
while because they bring up such complexity.

I like asking you such questions. I like to think that almost
every time you read this newsletter, and especially if you are
reading my premium newsletter -- RCN Plus (yes, that is a plug --
for more info go here :-) ) -- your ideas about relationships
are turned upside down and something new opens up for you.

Today I thought of just such a question, one relevant for
everyone, regardless of what stage of a relationship or
singlehood they are in.

Here is the question:

What do you REALLY want from a love relationship, so much
so that it makes you want to be in the a relationship?

On the surface this question is easy to answer -- we all want
love. But love means many different things to many different
people, and can even have different meanings for the same person
at different life stages, which means the question really is:

What does your partner have to do for you/to you/with you
in order for you to feel loved and to feel that being in a
relationship is worthwhile?

You can also ask an even more profound question, such as:

What kind of ambiance/energy/life do the two of you have
to create together and maintain consistently in order for
you to feel as if you are getting what you need from a

Why do the answers to these questions matter to you?

* If you are single and you know the answers to these
questions, you will know what kind of a partner you need to
pick and you will be able to clearly articulate the kind of
a relationship you want to create.

* No matter whether you are single or in a relationship,
answering these questions will clarify for you what needs
you are seeking to meet in a love relationship. You may realize
that some of these needs can and should be met outside of a
relationship. This will both allow you to get your needs met
faster and better, and will free your partner from your
possibly unreasonable expectations.

* If you are in a relationship, one way to keep it alive is to
keep breathing new life into it. It's always time to reexamine
how the relationship is going and how happy and satisfied you
and your partner are. These questions, asked of each other,
can help you renew your relationship.

* If you are unhappy in a relationship, these questions can be
the beginning of change to bring happiness and satisfaction
back into your relationship.

There are many other benefits to answering these questions, too
many to mention and some I have not even thought of yet. I
invite you to discover these benefits for yourself.

I suggest you pick one or more of the questions above and think
about it often over the next week. See what comes up for you.
Don't deny what does show up even if you don't like it or
are afraid of what it means.

If you want to drop me a note with what happens, I will be glad
to anonymously share it with other readers.
Readers of the RCN Plus, please click here to go to
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Your Relationship Coach
Rinatta Paries

(c) Rinatta Paries. Do you know how to attract your ideal mate? Do you know how to build a fulfilling relationship, or how to reinvent yours to meet your needs? Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries can teach you the skills and techniques to attract and sustain long-term, healthy partnerships. Visit where you'll find quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine. Become a "true love magnet(tm)!"

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